The second sublaw - Realization

Having accepted a level of ignorance as to what is actually possible, the second sub law to mastering the law of attraction is that of realization. This year is, for many, a year of realizations. Nearly everyone mentions that things have changed. Maybe saying there aren’t as many customers or they won’t be going on holiday, they’d be glad of a night off at this stage, let alone a night away! Simultaneously, thank God, people have realized that money isn’t the be all and the end all. There are lots of family outings happening, people helping each other out and home improvements going on. The realization that you must work on though is grander than all these. It is; For every desire that exists in the world, there also exists a full realization of that desire. Really let it dawn on you. There is an unlimited number of things and experiences arriving all the time. Everything is possible. So whatever the challenge you’re facing, keep in mind that a totally satisfactory outcome exists. It doesn’t matter if its financial, health related or a problem facing the whole world. Let the realization that there is definitely a solution cheer you up every day.

The Thought Police

Everyone has heard of the law of attraction with a brief understanding of it, such as ‘like attracts like’ or ‘you create what you think about’. Furthermore, many people sense that they must try and think positively or they will draw more negativity in. However, there is a distinct lack of mastery of this law. It is the exception rather than the rule when someone relates the story, “I focused on getting a 6 figure-salaried job and visualized myself still having the time to enjoy the renumeration and within a year that was exactly what was happening.” In fact I’ve never heard that, but definitely some more ‘realistic’ success stories. If I mention the law of gravity, there seems to be more consistency in our evidence. Everything always falls if you drop it, whether its heavy or light. Defying the law of gravity, though, are airplanes. They can fly because some people understand the sub laws that have a bearing on the law of gravity; such as lift, thrust and momentum. I hope you will start to familiarize yourself with and practice the sublaws to the law of attraction. It will culminate in the same consistency and you’ll be creating the life you want. The first sublaw is the law of ignorance. This means daily noticing that you don’t KNOW of any solution to your problems but then spending another few moments accepting that you also don’t KNOW that there isn’t one! Allowing the possibility is not unrealistic, it is literally an acknowledgement of what you cannot know. This daily practice lets in hope via the side door as it gives your thoughts a few minutes off from fully convinced gloom and doom. There are sixteen sublaws, so try and have this one up and running in time for next week’s installment. If you are so lost in the inevitability of how deep your problems run or a belief that they are all caused by someone else not you, you could benefit from an energy clearing which I could also provide!

Injuries

   In our culture, we have a very three dimensional understanding of what happens to us. However, long before injuries and accidents happen in the physical, they exist in our spiritual blueprint. These are patterns of strengths and weaknesses, remember the original story of our term ‘Achilles Heel’. You may have already noticed that when you’re nervous you feel it in the pit of your stomach, when you get a shock, you feel it as an ache in your hips. The burden of responsibility sits on your shoulders and the weight of your past hits you around the knees. If you can acknowledge that you are more than a sum of your parts and take care of your spirit too, two things can happen. Firstly, you don’t have the stress crying out for attention and manifesting in ever stronger and more painful ways in your body. Secondly, you activate a much more effective recovery system in your body. This is simply because the body is solid and can only be treated with pain killers, surgery and rest etc. The spirit, on the other hand, is fluid energy, the very fabric that underlies everything physical. In this realm there is no such thing as permanent damage and every possibility of  returning problem areas to their structural integrity. Try energy healing first, not as a last resort and literally make your weaknesses become your strengths and bring a stop to recurring injuries.   

Ideas on Success 2: Competition

What is a healthy sense of competition? I would think that an unhealthy competitiveness is more often seen and includes an intention to win at all costs, wishing defeat and ill will on your opponents! Ideally it should be a dynamic in one’s life that encourages us to challenge ourselves to meet greater athletes without minding too much if  we win or lose. If you feel considerable anger or disappointment when you lose, you are attaching too much to the outcome of your actions. Many people have thoughts like ‘I am useless’ or ‘they didn’t play fair’.  Your actual sense of self worth has been compromised. Working with sportsmen over the last ten years, I have used energetic medicine to shift any divisive spirit in their game. When people become aware that everyone they compete against is a reflection of something in themselves, they are able to emulate what they admire and lightly delight in or forgive whatever the outcome. 

Idea 1 on Success

Loser’s limp I read a book called Champions about an equestrian who won gold at the olympics. She described a phenomenon common to all sportsmen, the ‘loser’s limp’. It is a perspective that limits your success. The one she had to overcome was the belief that someone who had only started horse riding at forty years old could be as good as someone who had ridden all their lives. For a Carlow footballer, that I did energy clearing for, he had worked excessively on his fitness, 500 sit ups a day, to get the speed and stamina for selection. The underlying belief was that he didn’t naturally have the conformation for speed. Many people I have worked with have felt they didn’t have the backing, be it financial or encouragement, to succeed. For two reasons, a loser’s limp can be very damaging. Firstly, because it creates an ‘against the odds’ atmosphere around your training. You continually put extra strain and stress on yourself to excel that will manifest in the body as injuries or other set backs. When I’ve cleared these beliefs, the attitude you bring to training is one of ‘doing what you do best’, simply honing a God given gift that is already yours to play with. Secondly, with a deeply held belief, perspective or negative expectation, your whole unconscious focus is on it, however productive and healthy your conscious plans are. This dynamic moves you inexorably towards failure. Think for a moment if you have any negative thoughts about your chosen sport. Awareness is half the battle won!

Be true to yourself

  Bring to mind any person you know. There are many subtle and not so subtle expressions of their energy going on. Take your good self for example. You are sweet, fun loving and bold. You are imaginative, hopeful and persistent. These are the qualities of your spirit. This part of you has seen it all before. It isn’t troubled by past experiences or other peoples’ opinions. Listening to one's spirit can be forgotten though when lost in the details of life. In many relationships, past hurts lead to every interaction being defensive. With the briefest acknowledgement, grievances can be forgiven and insecurities released. Learn how to come back to an open hearted way of being with each other. It is always your choice. In practical terms, this involves a commitment to let your past go and not personalize anything that is said or done. Your new participation will be one of understanding and curiosity. This way reignites your passion for life.

Move On

What sort of atmosphere do you bring to the party? As you start to realize that a generous and ongoing awareness of yourself and your partner is all you need to be happy, you often quickly see how clouded your own energy is. It is mainly clouded with judgements that you think are true. You have thought them so many times, that you have compromised your mental health with them. You have depressed yourself! This dynamic, or rather stagnancy, is not easy to pivot into a positive spin because it stems back to some old horror tucked away in your unconscious. What people don’t realize is that, in a relaxed and methodical manner, they can wake up and heal these aches, pains and fears. When old feelings don’t dominate you, you can really start to live. Instead of all your neural pathways leading backwards, strands of intuition, creativity, solutions and forgiving explanations start to flood in and show a way forward.